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Blended families are a disgrace, I grew up like many in a blended family home and it’s a disgrace in so many levels, and all this hypocrisy and cult religions and falseness and lies and deception and etc has caught up to so many!!!

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Question... As a stepmom, is it my responsibility to support my stepkid financially also? Doesn't the step kid has both a biological dad & biological mom to do that for her?

Wow this was great. He touched on so many topics!

Even though I disagree with remarriage according to scripture. This video was full of wisdom.

Great great great advice

Thank you Ned Flanders

I wonder if this pastor and his wife are still married? If they are getting angry with each other time outs are not the answer. Jesus is the answer. You do not ever have to be angry with anyone again. You will have to much compassion for them and especially when they do wrong as it means they are hurt bad and now hurting themselves. We empathize for the sinners as we see sin as the suffering it is as it is separation form God. What could be worse to happen to us than to be separated from the Lord. Love keeps no records of wrongs. See each other as the person you went on the honeymoon with. See the wife of your youth and you will never even be frustrated with her. Remember the time you could not even get frustrated with her? This is what Jesus will do for your marriage. The closer you both get to Jesus the closer you will come together.

Lord you have spoken!! Thank you for this wonderful gift of ministry. I was so ignorant trying to blend a family.. but God has all the answers! “The definition of crazy is to figure out what doesn’t work and continue doing it!” Time to stop the crazy cycle! God is good!!

Come on now, I have to tell my wife everytime I give my child some money? Really?

I’m so sick of being attached to broken families and seeing favoritism. Ugh! I def don’t belong in this era

I just want them to apologize.

My God, he touched on every single issue that I am dealing with right now with my boyfriend. I see no future with this man if he doesn't set boundaries and get his spoiled daughter under control. The giving away spousal love issue is particularly the problem Because his six-year-old thinks she is his girlfriend and that she can passively aggressively Push me off of him whenever I try to hug or kiss him or out hug and kiss him In jealousy that I just did it.. Or get mad that he gives me flowers and didn't buy her flowers too. Or ask me when I'm leaving so she can sleep in the bed with him. Or at breakfast asking when are you and mommy going to be back together again because i want you back together....I'm sick of him laughing about it and not correcting it.

My wife puts my stepdaughter first and has said shes her favorite. We have a child together and she has 2 my boys who are step sons. Evrytime we go to store my wife and stepdaughter is always thinking of just stepdaughter and it's not fair to all the othe 3 children. I try to discipline stepdaughter not dmto do something my wife's excuses come example she probably accidentally clicked on a bad vidoe when there's multiple videos of girls dancing and she's watching them to learn how to dance provocative and or wife says well the boys do this, it's always a competition with kids or when we argue about something else

I try my best to raise our children but my wife doesn't let me be leader ofnour home. I struggle so much with this woman. I've never in my life been married this is first marriage and I can twll you this woman is one of the hardest hostile aggressive woman I've ever known. I need prayers I'm about to give up on this woman the lies arw getting old and idk what to do anymore to point I want to get out. Ny wife doesn't respect me and yells cusses me out in front of the kids when it's not her way or when she gets offended. Plz pray for me plz I've been suffering so much

So good! ❤

Even though this video was posted 10 years ago, I wanted to write my appreciation :), I wish I had seen this years ago. Thank you for posting this message of forgiveness! May God bless you !

So happy I found this… Dec 2022.. a girl teenager who decided out of the blue she now wants to come over the same schedule her 5yr old younger sister… 🙏🏼 help us all.

Time and time again it's amazing to hear this and a blessing to me

I am a step-parent. I've moved in with my bf that has 2 kids + his stepdaughter. We have them every other weekend. The problem now, is that they don't understand English, I don't understand French. I took lessons, but was not enough. Due to that, I was never able to express myself. Every time we have them over, I get pushed to the back burner, and he expects me to be his partner. He physically told me i come 2nd after his kids. This hurts my feelings and it does reflect whenever they're here. It's not the kids' fault, but this has been going for 2 years now. There's just too much resentment built-up.

Thank you 🙏

Blended families are not Biblical, dont do it! Much higher divorce rate and kids suffer.

One of the most powerful message I really needed this.

What an absolutely excellent way of rearing blended kids n spouses... wow! Bravo to you sir.

All I can say is thank you.

Step parents are not biblical.

Very true 👍 timely advice thank you

Stay safe And don't get caught.

I wished l gad heard this 6 years earlier.. l would had still gotten a divirce BUT l could had sustained a decent relationship with my then step children. Unfortunately both their parents (as per them) were narcissists. I only can attest theur father is one. I should had known what it meant, wgen he not very happily said to me, l ""Had to"" take them in because they are minors and (their mother, whom he was divorcing) when that happened, had died. THAT right there explained the kind of father he was and the kind of husband he became, when l started caring for these, his children. It did not end up well for any of us. I litteraly was slmost killed by him, attacked by (the suffering) of his older son and left confused by the multiple personalities of his daughter, all product of their dysfunctional childhood and youth.

I like this Man! Great video thanks for sharing

Only one comment? This video is GOLD!

No, DON'T DO THIS!!! Don't get married / or create a blended family. This should be considered as a form of child abuse. You can do whatever you wish when your children are 18 years old... yes EIGHTEEN YEARS OLD.

I'm going through so much being in a blended family this is what I needed

I struggle with doing "anything" for the new spouse. My children are my 1st priority.

Wow.......I wish I would have found this video 4 years ago! Thank you so much for it.

When I hear the words blended family I shit in my pants. No no no blended family for me

Excellent

Excellent teaching! Share with friends! ❤️❤️❤️

Awesome stuff! Wish I learned this years ago.

Don't think I want a blended family, seems like way to much work and war and not worth it.

I knew about blended family’s as a child. I’ve saw it and still do with my mom and dad. My mom was single and merried my dad who had 2 teenagers. But my half sister’s mother passed away, so there mother’s parents raised them. My mom and dad had Us later ( 3 kids later) I’m 3 years older than my 1st half sister’s kid, that’s when she merried her husband. So her 3 kids don’t call any of us aunt and uncle, because my mom had a little boy after me 6 years later. So I’m just Beth . And the one 3 years younger than me has 2 kids and I’m just Emily or Beth to them also. And the other half sister’s 2 son’s don’t call me aunt either . So yes I understand how My mom feels , I’ve seen it. Thay except her now years later but for a long period of time thay didn’t.

He just told her to call me Emily, & her name is Emily, I think she needs to say Ms. Emily, but I’m not gonna push it

See it’s my house, yes because I move a lot growing up as a child, and I told myself I wasn’t gonna move anymore when I got grown . I was gonna pay my own bills. So I did , I buy my house @ age 25 and now @ 36 I found a man that is my husband now four years later, Pay the lawyer to get visitation rights every other weekend to see his kid . His baby mama took away 10 or 11 years ago that he hadn’t seen that many years. Because thay were never merried. And I keep my stuff in the hall closet and I’ll let him have the closet in our bedroom and then there’s an extra room and my clothes are in there and then we get in it’s that same room we get it him a big long closet for his shirts. And the third room we made for his little girl , I went and got stuff for his kid. And he said I can’t say anything to her she’s got to warm up to me first. Like she had to get to know her dad. So I’m being patient with her with my husband it’s hard to be patient with . He finely told me after four years that he was bipolar years ago. Well this means he’s still bipolar. You just deal with it .

Im gonna make my fiance watch this so he can understand where im coming from

Out of the many blended family videos I have watched so far. Yours gave more solutions than issues.

Step kids cannot inherit from a step parent look it up! Unless adopted. What happens is the money goes to the stepparents and then they get remarried again and your kids lose out! This guy is wrong! U need to protect family heirlooms foe your kids! What you worked for will end up to someone else's family

How can this man say a new lover comes first? If you and your child were together through hard times and you love your kids first and didn't even know your new spouse, so when you divorce for a 3rd time the 4th spouse comes first again over your kids? If the spouse came first you wouldn't be divorced in the first place! Remember that. Kids come first. Girls are 4 times higher in sexual abuse from stepfamilies so if the stepfather comes first the daughter should be beaten and raped as a gift for him. I was that stepchild that was never put first, went to school hungry, no new clothing because he said i am a girl and girl are traders to a family. Mom says 3rd husband has to come first. Unconditional love is for your kids, conditional love is with a new lover that can change

One thing he did not mention as step kids losing both parents to a new family stepparents and creating new kids half-siblings. The first child is now the second class citizen

And what about those parents divorce again from the stepparents and then remarried another stepparent. Wtf, can't people just date! You have your home and i have mine. AND WHAT ABOUT THOSE JEALOUS STEPFATHERS AND STEPMOMS

Excellent Thankyou